We’re relationship coaches Susie and Otto Collins and if you’ve got that sick feeling in the pit of your stomach that your man may be lying or even cheating on you, but you aren’t sure–then we want to help you get to the truth. In order to best help you figure out whether he’s lying and cheating on you, we’d like to ask you a few simple questions about you and your relationship.
Please answer these questions as openly and honestly as possible. Here are the questions…
Do you wonder what he’s doing and who he’s really spending his time with when he’s not with you?
Are you suspicious of another woman who your man claims to be "just friends" with?
Is your man overly-secretive or overly-protective of his privacy when he’s on the phone, texting or on the internet and it’s upsetting to you?
Are there mysterious gaps in time that can’t be easily explained when you ask him about what he was doing or where he was?
Have you noticed your man being late or changing his plans at the last minute and his excuses just don’t "feel right" for someone who claims they really want to be with you?
Have you actually caught him lying to you or cheating on you and he promised he’d change but you’re feeling like he may be up to his old tricks all over again?
Are you beginning to doubt yourself because every time you accuse him of lying, he tells you that you’re making it all up, he’s not doing anything wrong and that you’re "crazy"?
Are your feelings about what you suspect is going on causing you to be afraid that he might leave you for another woman and you’ll end up humiliated, unloved and alone?
If you said "YES" to any of the questions we just asked you, we know that there aren’t many things you’ll have to deal with in your life that are worse than thinking or feeling like you are being lied to and possibly betrayed– and not know for sure.
If you’re living with these kinds of questions, what you want right now is honesty and to not have to be worried about what he’s up to when he’s not with you. If you want the lies and uncertainty to end, then continue reading because we’re going to help you get to the truth…
How We Became Experts at Spotting Liars, Cheaters and Affair-Repeaters and How You Can Use Our Shortcuts To Find Out If a Man Is Lying or Cheating On You
As of the time we’re writing this letter to you, we’re in the thirteenth year of a truly wonderful relationship and marriage that has total trust, honesty, deep connection and incredible love and passion–but the truth is, we’ve seen our share of lying, cheating, affairs and infidelity. Not only have we seen lying, cheating and infidelity in our own lives (prior to getting together) but we’ve seen it firsthand in the lives of close friends and family. In fact Susie’s suspicions that her ex-husband had been cheating (and ending up choosing the other woman) was the final straw that ended their 30 year marriage. In our professional lives, as relationship coaches, we’ve worked with hundreds of clients who were dealing with lying partners or cheating spouses. We helped them get to the truth and figure out what their next steps should be in their relationships.
As we look back on it, we didn’t set out to be experts on lying, cheating and truth-telling in relationships but that’s what we became because these were the kinds of issues that our clients were dealing with. Believe us when we say that these aren’t the kinds of subjects that you’re taught about in relationship coach training. We had to find other ways to become experts on lying and cheating– so we started researching the best ways to spot a liar and find out whether someone is cheating or not. You see, we’ve spent many thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours learning about relationships and researching how to spot liars and cheaters so that we could help people like you separate out fact from fiction about whether your man is lying or cheating.
The good news is there is hope and it’s not your fault that you don’t have all the answers about your relationship and your man right now. The other bit of good news we have for you is that you don’t have to guess about what to do next to find the truth. You don’t have to spend any more time wondering about him and whether he’s lying or cheating on you. With our help, getting to the truth will be much easier than you ever thought possible. You can end your frustration now by using our best tricks and ideas (the ones that took us thousands of hours to discover) to find out if he’s being true to you.
Do You Know The 3 Worst Mistakes You Could Ever Make If You Suspect Your Man Is Lying or Cheating On You?
Mistake # 3 Chances are you’re doing something right now–(without even knowing it)–that is the biggest mistake you could ever make if you’re in a relationship with someone you think is lying or cheating on you. Because you’re hurt, upset, angry, feel disconnected from him and are desperately wanting the truth… It’s normal and natural that you do this and use it as a coping strategy for dealing with a man who you think is hiding something, withholding the truth and possibly telling you lies or cheating on you right before your very eyes.
But here’s the problem if you’re doing this… If you’re doing this and he IS lying and cheating on you, then it will make getting to… Read more…